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The question is not only what have I achieved, the question is what have I helped others to achieve? That is the notion of social conscience in Islam.
Often there are obstacles in achieving peace of mind. Therefore, God always tries to wake one up during a person's mid-life, which is between the ages of 40 and 55. This call comes in different forms. Sometimes in dreams, sometimes when you hear a good sermon, sometimes a crisis, sometimes a tragedy. All these ways are to pull you back so that you can prepare yourself for your return to God. Some people are able to catch these messages but others fail to see it. The obstacles that stop us from hearing this call are as follows:
1. ATTACHEMENT TO MATERIAL THINGS. The more things we have the more we need to take care of it. Our time and energy is invested in maintaining these things. The possessions take us over. We become slaves to our possessions and our lust for power and position in the society. So the trick is to draw a line between our needs and our ego. We can make our lives very tranquil by having what we really need; or complicate it by fooling ourselves that we are acquiring it for children and family whereas in fact we are doing it for POWER and EGO and POSITION in the society.
2. ATTACHMENT TO OUR RELATIONSHIPS. Learn to keep a little detached from your relationships. The children that are born through you are not your possessions. You give them love and guidance but they are God's souls. If you were to lose anybody in your life - you should be prepared to accept it. Enjoy and be peaceful with your relationships but when it ends - let it go.
3. ATTACHMENT TO YOUR IMAGE. We spend so much time and energy to make ourselves perceived different than what we actually are. We should be comfortable with ourselves. If we are possessed with how we are perceived, that becomes a hindrance (difficulty).
4. ATTACHMENT TO WEALTH. Accumulation of wealth that we can not share with others, is not part of any religion. When we are busy making money so that we can hoard for children and grand children and family - as if the God who looked after us can't look after them - we are trying to play God's role, guided by our EGO in disguise. Needless to say we are too busy with no time for anything else or ANYONE else.
Finally, "When you run after the world, the world never comes into your hands". The day you learn to detach (separate) yourself from this world and concentrate on working for others, the world will come after you. But you will have no need for that world because you have found peace and harmony and tranquillity (calm).